The House of Growth™ is more than a website — it’s a living ecosystem designed to support your personal and development. Inside this house, you’ll find three distinct rooms, each offering a unique way to grow:
pH Academy — annual curriculum, courses, and guided pathways
The GPS Pathway™ — guided personal development tracks to meet your learning needs
The Growth Scroll — a living library of programs, teachings and reflections
The Growth Shop — tools, books, journals, and resources
Whether you’re beginning your journey or going deeper, The House of Growth offers a rhythm and a room for every season — one theme, one intention, one step at a time.
Explore the Rooms in the House of Growth. 👇🏾
pH Academy is the heart of our structured learning environment — a members-only community offering guided courses, monthly rhythms, and annual curriculum themes. Each year unfolds with clarity and purpose, giving you a path that aligns with your season.
Whether you’re joining mid-year or planning your next step, you’ll find support, structure, and space to grow at your own pace.
The GPS Pathway™ is a guided personal development journey designed to help you clarify direction, align intention, and sustain forward momentum. Whether you prefer guided teaching, reflective journaling, or live accountability, GPS meets you where you are and supports where you’re going.Â
The Growth Scroll is your ongoing library of teachings, reflections, and insights. Updated seasonally, it captures the heart of each year’s theme — helping you stay grounded, inspired, and aligned.
Think of it as a spiritual archive, always available for moments when you need clarity, encouragement, or perspective.
Visit often because the scroll evolves.
Welcome to the Growth Shop — your workspace for transformation.
Here you’ll find tools designed to support your development journey one practice at a time. From printable guides and digital journals to physical card decks and resources, every item here helps you move from awareness to intention to momentum.
Whether you’re deepening your emotional intelligence, strengthening your habits, or cultivating clarity, the Growth Shop offers tools that meet you right where you are — and help you grow forward.
Your growth is a journey. The House of Growth gives you room to grow.
âš“ - MONTHLY ANCHORS - Ongoing rhythms each month
July 1 - Sept 30, 2026
đź’˛- $97
Every quarterly offering of the GPS Accountability Circle has a theme and follows a month teaching cadence of Growth, Purpose and Success. This quarter's focus is Embodied Ownership.
The Growth lens explores Openness and Willingness. Â
The Purpose lens uses the I, TRANSFORMED Framework and will explore Faithfulness, Ownership and Rest.
The Success lens uses the RICH Framework and will focus on Confidence. Â
Includes all GPS teaching as well as pH Academy Own teaching on Awareness, Intention and Momentum.
In essence, the quarterly program includes 6 full courses plus group coaching, accountability and support.Â
NOTE:Â The GPS Accountability Circle is for women only.
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Class open 1/1 -12/31/26
đź’˛- $27
ROOTed Rhythms™ is a gentle, yearlong rhythm designed to help you grow more grounded, more aware, and more aligned with God’s pace for your life.
Through weekly 1-minute teachings, reflective journaling, and seasonal Pot Checks™, you’ll cultivate a sustainable spiritual rhythm rooted in truth, not pressure.
Enroll for $27 and receive access for the full 2026 journey, with integration through June 30, 2027.
Grow slow. Root deep. You don’t have to rush. You just have to return.
Enrollment is ongoing throughout the year. Â
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ROOTwork & GRIEFwork Devotionals - Justice
ROOTwork is a sacred invitation to grow deeper, steadier, and stronger from the inside out.
The GRIEFwork Devotional Series is a sacred space for navigating loss with honesty, gentleness, and grace.
Monthly devotionals of the same work though two difference lenses each month.
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Self-Led/Independence
đź’˛- $5
Emotional intelligence is not learned once, but lived always.Â
Welcome to the pH EQ Reset Series. This month’s theme, Self-Led, is about Independence.
Self-led independence is not about pushing others away or proving you can do everything alone. It is about recognizing that your choices, your voice, and your direction belong to you.Â
NOTE: These Journals are offered in 2026 at a limited-time launch price.
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July 5, 2026 - 7pm EST
đź’˛- FREE
Every month a word. Every word a way forward.
This month's topic - JUSTICE in Grief
In July, we explore what JUSTICE means within grief.
Grief awakens a deep longing for fairness, truth, and alignment. “Justice” helps you make peace with unanswered questions, honor your voice, and stand firm in your worth.Â
Registration for one event provides access to all meetings for 2026. Â
Hope to see you there!
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July 7, 2026 - Substack
đź’˛- FREE
Every month on the 7th, Selaya offers a reflective word - a pause for your soul and a spark for your spirit.Â
The spoken work is on the odd months and the written work is on the even work. All of the work can be viewed on Substack using the link. Lean in as Selaya Speaks.Â
Follow the blog for notifications.
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July 9 - August 27, 2026Â
đź’˛- $177
Attend the inaugural RESPONSE Code Cohort.
Most people do not need more information. They need training in how to respond. The RESPONSE Code helps you build a consistent response practice in your everyday life.Â
Over 8 weeks, we will explore The RESPONSE Rhythm Framework and the 12 responses (Yes, No, Wait, Go, Now, Later, Pause, Hold, Stop, Stay, Return, Rest) within the RESPONSE Code Methodology with practical instruction and personal application.Â
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July 10, 2026 - 12 noon EST
đź’˛- FREE
Join Coach Paula for this month's Titration Talks discussion. It will be a practical dialogue on building a rooted rule of life that transforms chaos into clarity.Â
We will focus on how order can generate energy, simplify decision-making, and give you momentum without feeling boxed in.
Hope to see you there!
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July 11, 2026 - 8-9am EST
đź’˛- see below
Captain’s Corner is a new 5-part teaching series designed to honor and strengthen the role of men as builders, protectors, and legacy carriers.
Session One is The Weight of a Man and emphasizes the presence and responsibility he carries. Every man carries weight — responsibility, expectation, and the quiet pressure to hold things together.
In this session, we explore how a man’s presence, consistency, and emotional steadiness shape the atmosphere of a home and the people within it.
The session is 60 minutes with an additional 30 minute Q&A session for VIP registrants.Â
Each class may be taken individually or as part of the full series.
✔ Individual Session — $37
✔ VIP Session — $57 (includes live Q&A and additional resources)
✔ Full Series (5) — General $147; VIP $247
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July 16, 2026 - 8:09pm EST
đź’˛- FREE
Join me for a vLog of the monthly pH Balance blog.Â
This month's discussion is based on the blog - The Patterns beneath the surface. The Fruit of the Spirit category is Self-Control.
 Hope to see you there!
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July 17, 2026 - 12 noon EST
đź’˛- FREE
Join me for Open House with Paula - a 30-minute monthly drop-in conversation where we share life, love, grief, growth and anything!
It is not a presentation - it's a conversation. Bring your questions or just your presence.Â
Registration provides access to all monthly meetings. Hope to see you there!
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July 26, 2026 - 7pm EST
đź’˛- FREE for Community members
This is the monthly gathering for The Front Porch community members.
There is no agenda. No pressure to share. Just a virtual porch to sit on, together.
NOTE:Â The link takes you to the community so you can join. Membership is FREE and has privileges.Â
Once you join the Front Porch community, you will see the full details and access instructions for The Hangout and all other activities.
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âš“ - MONTHLY ANCHORS - Ongoing rhythms each month
July 1 - Sept 30, 2026
đź’˛- $97
Every quarterly offering of the GPS Accountability Circle has a theme and follows a month teaching cadence of Growth, Purpose and Success. This quarter's focus is Embodied Ownership.
The Growth lens explores Openness and Willingness. Â
The Purpose lens uses the I, TRANSFORMED Framework and will explore Faithfulness, Ownership and Rest.
The Success lens uses the RICH Framework and will focus on Confidence. Â
Includes all GPS teaching as well as pH Academy Own teaching on Awareness, Intention and Momentum.
In essence, the quarterly program includes 6 full courses plus group coaching, accountability and support.Â
NOTE:Â The GPS Accountability Circle is for women only.
— ✦ —Â
Class open 1/1 -12/31/26
đź’˛- $27
ROOTed Rhythms™ is a gentle, yearlong rhythm designed to help you grow more grounded, more aware, and more aligned with God’s pace for your life.
Through weekly 1-minute teachings, reflective journaling, and seasonal Pot Checks™, you’ll cultivate a sustainable spiritual rhythm rooted in truth, not pressure.
Enroll for $27 and receive access for the full 2026 journey, with integration through June 30, 2027.
Grow slow. Root deep. You don’t have to rush. You just have to return.
Enrollment is ongoing throughout the year. Â
— ✦ —Â
ROOTwork & GRIEFwork Devotionals - Justice
ROOTwork is a sacred invitation to grow deeper, steadier, and stronger from the inside out.
The GRIEFwork Devotional Series is a sacred space for navigating loss with honesty, gentleness, and grace.
Monthly devotionals of the same work though two difference lenses each month.
— ✦ —Â
Ownership Matters
đź’˛- $5
Emotional intelligence is not learned once, but lived always.Â
Welcome to the pH EQ Reset Series. This month’s theme, Ownership Matters, is about Responsibility.
This month is about noticing where you step forward with responsibility and where you might step back or wait for circumstances to change. Ownership is less about control and more about participation. It is the practice of showing up fully for the life you are living.Â
NOTE: These Journals are offered in 2026 at a limited-time launch price.
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August 2, 2026 - 7pm EST
đź’˛- FREE
Every month a word. Every word a way forward.
This month's topic - ANCHOR in Grief
In August, we explore what ANCHOR means within grief.
As waves of grief rise and fall, “Anchor” offers grounding. Our discussion will steady your heart, strengthen your identity, and remind you that you are not drifting alone.Â
Registration for one event provides access to all meetings for 2026. Â
Hope to see you there!
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August 7, 2026 - Substack
đź’˛- FREE
Every month on the 7th, Selaya offers a reflective word - a pause for your soul and a spark for your spirit.Â
The spoken work is on the odd months and the written work is on the even work. All of the work can be viewed on Substack using the link. Lean in as Selaya Speaks.Â
Follow the blog for notifications.
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August 8, 2026 - 8-9am EST
đź’˛- see below
Captain’s Corner is a new 5-part teaching series designed to honor and strengthen the role of men as builders, protectors, and legacy carriers.
Session Two is The Seed of a Man explores how how a man’s values, habits, and decisions become the seeds that grow in the lives around him, especially his family.Â
The session is 60 minutes with an additional 30 minute Q&A session for VIP registrants.Â
Each class may be taken individually or as part of the full series.
✔ Individual Session — $37
✔ VIP Session — $57 (includes live Q&A and additional resources)
✔ Full Series (5) — General $147; VIP $247
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August 14, 2026Â
đź’˛- FREE
Join Coach Paula for this month's Titration Talks discussion. It will be a practical dialogue on building a rooted rule of life that transforms chaos into clarity.Â
We will focus on how order can generate energy, simplify decision-making, and give you momentum without feeling boxed in.
Hope to see you there!
— ✦ —Â
August 16, 2026 - 8:09pm EST
đź’˛- FREE
Join me for a vLog of the monthly pH Balance blog.Â
This month's discussion is based on the blog - When Desire and Truth Finally Meet. The Fruit of the Spirit Category is Faithfulness.
 Hope to see you there!
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August 21, 2026 - 12 noon EST
đź’˛- FREE
Join me for Open House with Paula- a 30-minute monthly drop-in conversation where we share life, love, grief, growth and anything!
It is not a presentation - it's a conversation. Bring your questions or just your presence.Â
Registration provides access to all monthly meetings. Hope to see you there!
— ✦ —Â
August 23, 2026 - 7pm EST
đź’˛- FREE for Community members
This is the monthly gathering for The Front Porch community members.
There is no agenda. No pressure to share. Just a virtual porch to sit on, together.
NOTE:Â The link takes you to the community so you can join. Membership is FREE and has privileges.Â
Once you join the Front Porch community, you will see the full details and access instructions for The Hangout and all other activities.
— ✦ —Â
âš“ - MONTHLY ANCHORS - Ongoing rhythms each month
July 1 - Sept 30, 2026
đź’˛- $97
Every quarterly offering of the GPS Accountability Circle has a theme and follows a month teaching cadence of Growth, Purpose and Success. This quarter's focus is Embodied Ownership.
The Growth lens explores Openness and Willingness. Â
The Purpose lens uses the I, TRANSFORMED Framework and will explore Faithfulness, Ownership and Rest.
The Success lens uses the RICH Framework and will focus on Confidence. Â
Includes all GPS teaching as well as pH Academy Own teaching on Awareness, Intention and Momentum.
In essence, the quarterly program includes 6 full courses plus group coaching, accountability and support.Â
NOTE:Â The GPS Accountability Circle is for women only.
— ✦ —Â
Class open 1/1 -12/31/26
đź’˛- $27
ROOTed Rhythms™ is a gentle, yearlong rhythm designed to help you grow more grounded, more aware, and more aligned with God’s pace for your life.
Through weekly 1-minute teachings, reflective journaling, and seasonal Pot Checks™, you’ll cultivate a sustainable spiritual rhythm rooted in truth, not pressure.
Enroll for $27 and receive access for the full 2026 journey, with integration through June 30, 2027.
Grow slow. Root deep. You don’t have to rush. You just have to return.
Enrollment is ongoing throughout the year. Â
— ✦ —Â
ROOTwork & GRIEFwork Devotionals - Seek
ROOTwork is a sacred invitation to grow deeper, steadier, and stronger from the inside out.
The GRIEFwork Devotional Series is a sacred space for navigating loss with honesty, gentleness, and grace.
Monthly devotionals of the same work though two difference lenses each month.
— ✦ —Â
Attuned Presence
đź’˛- $5
Emotional intelligence is not learned once, but lived always.Â
Welcome to the pH EQ Reset Series. This month’s theme, Attuned Presence, is about Awareness.
This month is about strengthening your awareness of the social environment you are part of. Small moments of attention can change the quality of a conversation, a meeting, or even an ordinary interaction.
Attuned presence is the ability to notice others with clarity, patience, and respect. It means being present enough to recognize what someone may be communicating through tone, energy, or silence.Â
NOTE: These Journals are offered in 2026 at a limited-time launch price.
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September 6, 2026 - 7pm EST
đź’˛- FREE
Every month a word. Every word a way forward.
This month's topic - SEEK in Grief
In September, we explore what SEEK means within grief.
Grief shifts your inner landscape, and “Seek” helps you rediscover what matters.  Our discussion will be honest and heartfelt.Â
Registration for one event provides access to all meetings for 2026. Â
Hope to see you there!
— ✦ —Â
September 7, 2026 - Substack
đź’˛- FREE
Every month on the 7th, Selaya offers a reflective word - a pause for your soul and a spark for your spirit.Â
The spoken work is on the odd months and the written work is on the even work. All of the work can be viewed on Substack using the link. Lean in as Selaya Speaks.Â
Follow the blog for notifications.
— ✦ —Â
September 11, 2026Â
đź’˛- FREE
Join Coach Paula for this month's Titration Talks discussion. A powerful dialogue on embodying what you’ve claimed.Â
We’ll explore how momentum builds when you consistently reaffirm your truth — walking it out in daily life with courage, clarity, and conviction.
#OwnMomentum
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September 12, 2026 - 8-9am EST
đź’˛- see below
Captain’s Corner is a new 5-part teaching series designed to honor and strengthen the role of men as builders, protectors, and legacy carriers.
Session Three is The Safety of a Man we explores how a man creates an environment where others feel secure, supported, and covered, even in uncertain times.Â
The session is 60 minutes with an additional 30 minute Q&A session for VIP registrants.Â
Each class may be taken individually or as part of the full series.
✔ Individual Session — $37
✔ VIP Session — $57 (includes live Q&A and additional resources)
✔ Full Series (5) — General $147; VIP $247
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September 16, 2026 - 8:09pm EST
đź’˛- FREE
Join me for a vLog of the monthly pH Balance blog.Â
This month's discussion is based on the blog - The Life that Follows Alignment. The Fruit of the Spirit Category is Faithfulness.
 Hope to see you there!
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September 18, 2026 - 12 noon EST
đź’˛- FREE
Join me for Open House with Paula- a 30-minute monthly drop-in conversation where we share life, love, grief, growth and anything!
It is not a presentation - it's a conversation. Bring your questions or just your presence.Â
Registration provides access to all monthly meetings. Hope to see you there!
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September 23, 2026 - 7pm EST
đź’˛- various
The full EXCELLENCE Teaching Series will be released on this date. You can focus on module 1 through the Excellence Encounter or fully suberge via the Excellence Experience and explore all 10 modules.Â
E - Elevate the Standard
X - eXamine Alignment
C - Choose Consistency
E - Execute with Integrity
L - Lead Yourself First
L - Love the Process
E - Engage with Devotion
N - Normalize Discipline
C - Cultivate Growth
E - Embody the Standard
Learn more by clicking the link.
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September 27, 2026 - 7pm EST
đź’˛- FREE for Community members
This is the monthly gathering for The Front Porch community members.
There is no agenda. No pressure to share. Just a virtual porch to sit on, together.
NOTE:Â The link takes you to the community so you can join. Membership is FREE and has privileges.Â
Once you join the Front Porch community, you will see the full details and access instructions for The Hangout and all other activities.
— ✦ —Â
🧪In the Lab Cultivating what's next! More to come - Check back often!